"WHAT IS A SALARY?"

AUTHOR: MR. ERIC WIREKO  (EDUCATIONIST, TEACHER)

- A salary is a bribe for one to forget their ambition.

Research has it that the poorest group of people in the world are the salary earner's group, which is practically next to beggars' group.

They live in a vicious cycle of poverty, managed on a 30-day duration while their freedom and opinions totally gone.

For them, salary is continuously being awaited every month, and any slight delay brings heartbreaking anxiety, pressure and disappointment.... That is the reasons many steal to survive.

Salary is a short-term solution to a life time problem. Salary alone cannot solve your money problems.
You need multiple sources of income to balance.

The tax return form contains about 11 income streams, of which salary is just one.
Don't live life fishing with just one hook; there are many fishes in the ocean.

Salary is the MEDICINE for managing POVERTY, not for CURING it. Only your BUSINESS or INVESTMENT cures poverty.

Most investors are not salary earners.

 The difference between those beggars on the street and salary earners is one month salary.

Truncate the flow of their salary for one month and you would realize that majority of them are pure paupers.

If you divide your salary by the rate of exchange, you will discover that you are poorer, relative to when you started work; or divide your salary per annum by 2,000 on hours to know what your one hour is worth.

If you do not have 3 months salary in savings, you are already poor.

Being a salary earner is a mentality, break It!

Your worth is far more than your salary.

Salary is the value someone has put on your efforts.

How much do you value yourself?

You can't increase in value, unless you value yourself differently.

Life is a trade off between time, effort and reward.

To be rewarded more, you have to become more valuable.

Most salary earners end up poor in the long and short term. I therefore urge every one of us to be FINANCIALLY INTELLIGENT, FINANCIALLY LITERATE, and OPEN OUR EYES TO SEE OPPORTUNITIES IN PROBLEMS.

Delve into entrepreneurship because salary is a lifetime disappointment.
Being a salary earner or investor is a decision.

Life will not change until you decide.

 Make the move!

Remember what I just said "Salary is a bribe to forget one's ambition".

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*DEAR BACHELOR'S, LOWER YOUR REQUIREMENTS.*
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For some bachelors, they want a woman who has never left her room all her life, yet she speaks queens English, her Arabic is off the hook, she is a hafeeza, she knows how to cook all the village dishes, African dishes and Chinese quisines, she shouldn't go to school yet she should be a graduate of medicine, she should do all the chores without complaining all day and at night she should still display her skills so much like a black belt holder in the bed room.
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If the likes of these are your requirements, pls do not marry in this world else you will end up divorcing every woman you marry, for none of them will ever meet your cut-off mark. Kindly wait till the hereafter so that you will have the women of jannah who are flawless and spotless.

*The reality of the dunya is that you will never find a perfect spouse in it*

*if you see a woman who possesses half of your needs, MARRY her and nurture the remaining half in her gradually.*
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The prophet salallahu alayhi wassslam said:
People are just like camels, out of every 100, you will hardly find one suitable to ride.      (saheeh bukhari)

The hadith shows that you can't find a person with a perfect characteristics in multitudes.

*if you find a hafeeza, she may be struggling with jinn problem*

*if you find a muhaditha, she may be struggling with an infection*

*if you find a doctor who is a Muslimah she may not understand Arabic*

*if you find a female scholar of fiqh, she may be suffering from a rare disease*

*if you find a young pretty virgin, she might have not passed through school at all*

*if you find a masha Allah Munaqabah, it may be that she has beards and moustache*

 *if you find a young graduate Muslimah, she may not know how to cook many delicacies*

*if you find a sweet-16 on Facebook, she may want a man who sings poems and loves cats*

*VICE-VERSA to the SISTER'S too*

So in summary, you will never find a perfect woman in this world.
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*Do you know why a newly married man is called 'groom'?*

It's Because it is assumed that you being the head of the family, you are expected to nurture and groom your new bride gradually and fashion her into your taste with time.

 Sadly, the grooms of these days are expecting ready made brides. These is usually the very first problem in many matrimonial homes today. Even though it takes only 2 minutes to prepare indomie, but that 2 minutes makes the difference between a raw indomie and a cooked one.

*Copied with slight abridgement.*

HAKKIN MIJI AKAN MATA DA HAKKIN MATA AKAN MIJI

AN kasa hakkokin maaurata zuwa kashi uku
na daya hakkin miji akan mata
na biyu hakkin mata akan miji
na uku hakkin tarayya tsakanin maaurata
Hakkin mata akan miji sune:

#Aminu_Ibrahim_Daurawa

1.ciyarwa gwargwadon iko.

2.tufatarwa daidai iko.

3.shayarwa.

4.kayan kwalliya.

5.kayan tsafta.

6.gurin kwana.

7.kula da lafiya.

8.hakkin saduwa.

9.ilmantarwa.

10.girmamawa.

11.mutuntawa.

12.tausasawa.

13.yabawa ga abinci ko kwalliya ko tsafta.

14.nuna damuwa da ita.

15.sakar mata fuska da murmushi.

16.gaya mata kalmomi masu dadi na yabo.

17.zama hira da tattaunawa da ita.

18.kiranta da suna mai dadi.

19.yawan yi mata kyautar ba zato ba tsammani.

20.fita unguwa ko taro ko ko tafiya da ita.

21.taimaka mata aikin gida ko dan kadan.

22.bata damar zabin abincin gida a wasu lokuta.

23.bata damar zabin tufafin da zata sauya.

24.mutunta iyayenta da danginta.

25.A bata hakuri idan anyi mata ba dai dai ba.

26.A  yaba mata idan tayi daidai.

27. kada a zageta ko a muzantata a gaban yayanta.

28.banda duka.

29.banda zagi.

30.banda saurin fushi.

31.ka zama  miji mai tsafta.

32.ka zama miji mai kula da goge baki.

33.miji mai kwalliya.

34.miji bamai almubazzaranci ba.

35.miji bamai mai kwauro ba.

36.miji bamai shan taba ba.

37.miji bamai mai shan giya ba.

38.miji bamai yawon dare ba.

39.miji bamai  neman mata ba.

40  Kada ka zama miji mai hira da wasu mata a gaban iyalansa.

41.miji mai yawan fada.

42.kada ka zama miji mai kauracewa shimfidar iyali.

43.kada ka zama miji mai nuna rashin damuwa da halin da iyalansa suke ciki.

44.kada ka zama miji mai tsananin kishi.

45.kada ka zama miji mai yawan zagi.

46.ka nuna wa matarka cewa gamsu da yanayinta.

47.ka bata dama ta fadi raayinta.

48.kayi shawara da ita akan harkokin gida da wajen cikinta.

49.ka dinga sumbatar ta daga lokaci zuwa lokaci.

50.yin wanka tare a wasu lokuta.

51.rera mata waka da kirari.

52.yin wasa da guje-guje.

53.kada ya zama miji mai zargi.

54.kada miji ya zama mai mugunta.

55.kada miji ya zama mai kushe.

56.kada miji ya zama mai bakin ciki da abinda iyalansa suke dashi.

57.kada miji ya zama mai ragwanci.

58.mijin ya zama mai lafiya wajen biyan bukatar aure.

59.miji ya zama mai kaunar yayansa.

60.miji ya zama mai girmama kawaye da aminan matarsa.

 Na biyu hakkin miji akan mata sune:

1.Ta rike masa amana.

2. Tayi masa biyayya akan duk abinda ba sabon Allah bane.

3. Ta kula da dukiyarsa.

4. Ta  kula da Sallah akan lokaci. Da addua zaman lafiya.

5. TA  girmama shi a gaban idansa.

6. TA  kare girmansa a bayan idansa.

7. Ta  so abinda yake so,  koda ba abin so bane a wajenta.

8. Ta  ki abinda yake ki, koda ba abin ki bane awajenta.

9. Ta damu da duk abin da ya damu dashi.

10. Ta kau da kai daga abinda ya kauda kai, daga gareshi.

11.Tayi fushi , da dukkan abinda yayi fushi da shi.

12.Ta yarda da duk abinda ya yarda da shi.

13.Idan ya bata kadan taga yawansa.

14.Idan ya bata da yawa tayi godiya.

15.Ta farka daga bacci kafin ya farka.

16.Sai yayi bacci kafin tayi.

17.Tayi hakuri idan yayi fushi.

18 Tayi taushi idan yayi tsauri.

19.Ta lallashe shi idan ya hasala.

20.kada ta nuna raki a gabansa.

21.kada tayi kuka alhali yana dariya.

22.kada tayi dariya alhali yana kuka.

23.kada ta tsaya kai da fata sai yayi mata wani abu.

24.kada ta matsa masa da bukatu.

25.kada ta dinka ganinsa kamar yaran gida.

26.kada ta dinka yi masa gyara barkatai.

27.kada ta dinka kushe tsarinsa.

28.Ki dinka zuga shi a gaban danginta.

29.Ta dinka girmama shi a wajen kawayenta.

30.Ta dinka nuna masa abu mai kyau.

31.Ta dinka boye abu mummuna.

32.Idan ya kawo wata damuwa gareta, ta taimake shi ya warware ta.

33.Idan ya nuna baya son wani abu ta daina.

34.Ta kwantar masa da hankali a lokacin damuwa.

35.Ta sassauta masa idan yana cikin bakin ciki.

36.Ta tsaya da jinyar sa idan yana rashin lafiya.

37.Ta taimake shi lokacin da yake neman taimako.

38.Idan yana cikin kunci ta sassauta bukatu.

39.Tayi masa rakiya lokacin fita ta tareshi a lokacin da ya dawo.

40.Ta tausasa harshe a lokacin da take magana dashi.

41.Ta zama mai tsaftar gida iya iyawarta.

42.Ta tsara dakinta sosai yadda zai birge.

43.Tayi masa bankwana a lokacin balaguro.

44.Tayi ado karshen iyawarta.

45.Ta bayyana halaye masu kyau.

46.Ishara ta ishi mai hankali ta kula wannan sosai.

47.Ta bayyana kanta a matsayin mace.

48.Ta iya murmushi da lafazi mai kwantar da rai.

49.Ta cika zuciyarsa da sonta idansa da kwalliyarta.

50.Tayi kokarin jan hankalinsa da abin da yake so.

51.Ta mayar masa da kyakkyawa idan yay i mata mummuna.

52.Ta yafe masa idan ya munana mata.

53.Ta karbi uzurinsa.

54.kada tayi sallar nafila sai ta sanar masa.

55.kada ta dau azumi sai ya sani.

56.kada ta fita daga gida sai ya sani.

57.Ta iya girki kala-kala.

58.kazantar jiki ta dade tana kashe aure a kula.

59.kada ta shigar da wani gidansa sai da izni.

60.kada ta nemi saki ko rabuwa haka kawai
Na uku shine hakkokin tarayya tsakanin maaurata.

1 Nunawa juna kauna da soyayya.

2 Tarayya da juna cikin abinda ya sami dayan ko na farin ciki ko bakin ciki.

3 kowa ya dinka yiwa abokin zaman sa kwalliya da tsafta.

4 kowa tsakanin maaurata ya zama mai kishin da uwansa.

5 a sami amincewa juna.

6 kowa ya bawa kowa daga cikin hakkin jin dadi da juna ta hanyar da shari'a ta amince.

7 kyakyawan zamantakewa tsakanin juna.

8 hakuri da juna9 Amincewa juna.

9 Farantawa juna rai.

10 su zama kamar abokan juna da yin shawara da juna.

11 Nuna juna kauna daga bangaran kowa daga cikin su.

12 Girmama iyayan da yan uwan juna.

13 Taimakon juna a lokacin da wani daga ciki ya gamu da jarrabawa.

14 Wani su dinka tona asirin juna a waje.

15 Banda cin Amanar juna.

16 kada su dinka bayyana wani mu'amalar su ta auratayya.

17 Akwai gado a tsakanin su idan daya daga cikin su ya fara rasuwa.
Wannan sako ne ga dukkan maaurata su zauna suyi nazarin wannan sako kowa yaga abinda yake yi a ciki, domin mu gudu tare mu tsira tare
Allah ya bamu ikon kiyaye hakkin juna.
YA cika zukatan mu da kauna da soyayya da girmamawa tsakanin mu da iyalinmu.